The Step-by-Step Relationship Knowledge System
Welcome to the Step-by-Step Relationship Knowledge System, your go-to source for expert advice on building and maintaining strong connections. From personal relationships to professional partnerships, we share practical tips and expert perspectives to help you navigate challenges, improve communication, and foster meaningful bonds. Stay informed, grow your connections, and create lasting relationships with our insightful content.
How It All Starts
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- Sigmund Freud
- The Family
- Relationship Wisdom
- Choosing Our Partners
- How It All Starts
Blog 1. How It All Starts: Your Relationships Mirror Your Parent’s Relationships. (If you find this informative helpful, then please find the…
Blog 2. How It All Starts: How A Parent Connects With A Child Can Have Lasting Effects On A Child’s Relationships In…
Blog 3. How It All Starts: Abandonment In Childhood Can Effect Relationships In Adulthood. (If you find this informative helpful, then please…
Blog 4. How It All Starts: If I’ve Been Abandoned There Must Be Something Wrong with Me. If There Is Something Wrong…
Blog 5. How It All Starts: Your Brain Can Be Your Worst Enemy. (If you find this informative helpful, then please find…
Blog 6. How It All Starts: We All Have The Same Issues, They’re Just Packaged Differently. (If you find this informative helpful,…
Blog 7. How It All Starts: Roller Coaster Emotions Don’t Just Come From Nowhere. (If you find this informative helpful, then please…
Blog 8. How It All Starts: Find Out What Happens When We Put Our ‘The Knight In Shining Armour’ On A…
Blog 9. How It All Starts: Find Out How We Use Karpman’s Drama Triangle: The Rescuer, The Punisher, the Victim, In…
How And Why We Choose Our Partners
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- Relationship Realities
- Sex And Addictions
- Sigmund Freud
- The Family
- Relationship Wisdom
- Choosing Our Partners
- How It All Starts
Blog 13. How And Why We Choose Our Partners: Find Out Whether You Have Good Or Bad Internal Parents And How It…
Blog 14. How And Why We Choose Our Partners: Learn About The Marital Or Relationship Fit. (If you find this informative…
Blog 15. How And Why We Choose Our Partners: You Can Easily Sabotage A Relationship By Not Fully Understanding The Unconscious…
Blog 16. How And Why We Choose Our Partners: Learn About The Consequences Of Projecting And Blame Within Relationships. (If you…
Blog 7. How And Why We Choose Our Partners: Learn Why Some People Continuously Describe Themselves, Their Partners, Or Their Relationship…
Blog 18. How And Why We Choose Our Partners: Learn About Regression in Relationships. (If you find this informative helpful,…
Blog 19. How And Why We Choose Our Partners: That ‘AHA’ Moment When You Realise Your Partner Isn’t Perfect. (If you…
Blog 20. How And Why We Choose Our Partners: How Relationships Develop. (If you find this informative helpful, then please find…
Relationship Wisdom
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- The Family
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- Choosing Our Partners
- How It All Starts
Blog 21. Relationship Wisdom: You Start As You Mean To Go On. (If you find this informative helpful, then please find…
Blog 22. Relationship Wisdom: In Order To Attract The Right Relationship, You Need To Be Clear About What You Want. (If you…
Blog 23. Relationship Wisdom: Do You Constantly Compare Yourself To Others? (If you find this informative helpful, then please find…
Blog 24. Relationship Wisdom: Consider this – If You Answer Questions About Yourself Too Quickly – You May Be In…
Blog 25. Relationship Wisdom: Learn How To Confront People Constructively – And Develop Self-Confidence At The Same Time. (If you find…
Blog 26. Relationship Wisdom: In A Rut? Then Get Off The Symbolic Bridge That Takes You Across The Water And…
Blog 27. Relationship Wisdom: Be Prepared To Lose Some People On Your Journey As Some May Find Your Progress Threatening.…
Blog 28. Relationship Wisdom: Life Can Be Like An Armchair. You Can Either Sit Back And Relax, Or You Can Sit…
Blog 29. Relationship Wisdom: You Only Spend 20 Years With Your Parents. Have You Thanked Them For What They’ve Taught…
The Family
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- Business, Money And Your Career
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- Death And Bereavement
- Endings And Grief
- Parenting
- Divorce
- Dating
- Marriage
- Relationship Realities
- Sex And Addictions
- Sigmund Freud
- The Family
- Relationship Wisdom
- Choosing Our Partners
- How It All Starts
Blog 33. The Unconscious Family System. (If you find this informative helpful, then please find the donate options at the…
Blog 34. The Family: Did You Know That Every Couple Sets Up A Relationship System Which Can Be Destructive? (If…
Blog 35. The Family: Buried Secrets In Your Family Can Be Detrimental To Your Health And Your Relationships. (If you…
Blog 36. The Family: Has Sibling Rivalry Affected Your Self-Worth And Has It Made You Feel A Failure? (If you…
Blog 37. The Family:Find Out How Your Birth Order Can Affect Your Personal And Business Relationships. (If you find this…
Sigmund Freud
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- Sigmund Freud
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- Choosing Our Partners
- How It All Starts
Blog 38. Sigmund Freud: To Really Understand Relationships – You Will Need To Understand Freud’s Oedipus Complex. (If you find this…
Blog 39. Sigmund Freud: Do You Really Know Why Some People Have Affairs? (If you find this informative helpful, then…
40. Sigmund Freud: Are You Aware Of The Traumatic Impact Separation Has On A Child That Is Sent To Boarding…
Blog 41. Sigmund Freud: Some Men Cheat On Their Pregnant Wives. Why? (If you find this informative helpful, then please find…
Blog 42. Sigmund Freud: Are You Defended? But What Does This Actually Mean? (If you find this informative helpful, then…
43. Sigmund Freud: Does Your Relationship Contain Aspects Of The Madonna and Whore Complex? (If you find this informative helpful,…
Sex and Addictions
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- How It All Starts
Blog 44: Sex and Addictions: What You Probably Didn’t Know About Sexual Abuse. (If you find this informative helpful, then…
Blog 45: SEX AND ADDICTIONS: Do You Fully Understand The Root Cause Of Addictions? Addiction is often about the need…
46. Sex And Addictions: What It Is Like To Have To Live With Someone Who Is An Addict Or Who Has…
47. Sex And Addictions: What Is It About The Sex/Porn Industry That Fascinates So Many People? (If you find this…
48. Sex And Addictions: Do You Fully Understand The Process Of Emotional Abuse Or Violence Between Two People? (If…
49. Sex And Addictions: Are You In A Co-Dependant Relationship? If So Why? (If you find this informative helpful, then…
50. Sex And Addictions: Why Do People Self-Destruct? (If you find this informative helpful, then please find the donate options…
51. Sex And Addictions: Why Do People Get So Very Angry? (If you find this informative helpful, then please find…
52. Sex And Addictions: Did You Know That Self-Loathing Can Lead To Extreme Forms Of Self-Punishment? (If you find this…
Relationship Realities
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- Therapy
- Death And Bereavement
- Endings And Grief
- Parenting
- Divorce
- Dating
- Marriage
- Relationship Realities
- Sex And Addictions
- Sigmund Freud
- The Family
- Relationship Wisdom
- Choosing Our Partners
- How It All Starts
60: Relationship Realities: Do You Understand How Power And Control Is Used Within Relationships? (If you find this informative helpful,…
61. Relationship Realities: Do You Know How To Deal With Emotional Inconsistencies Within Your Relationship? (If you find this informative…
62. Relationship Realities: Do You Create What You Complain About? (If you find this informative helpful, then please find the…
63. Relationship Realities: Has Your Partner Become Your Parent? (If you find this informative helpful, then please find the donate…
Blog 64. Relationship Realities: How Does Money Affect Your Relationship? (If you find this informative helpful, then please find the…
65. Relationship Realities: Why Do You Constantly Remind Your Partner Of All Their Mistakes? (If you find this informative helpful,…
66. Relationship Realities: Learn Why It Is Important To Keep Your Personal Life Personal. (If you find this informative helpful,…
67. Relationship Realities: The Reality Of Men And Women In Relationships. (If you find this informative helpful, then please find…
68. The Realities Of Relationships: What Your Partner May Actually Feel About Your Behaviour May Shock You. (If you find…
Marriage
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- Marriage
- Relationship Realities
- Sex And Addictions
- Sigmund Freud
- The Family
- Relationship Wisdom
- Choosing Our Partners
- How It All Starts
71. Marriage: Why Do Couples In The West Choose To Get Married? (If you find this informative helpful, then please…
72. Marriage: Marriage For Many – Is About Growing Up. (If you find this informative helpful, then please find the…
73. Marriage: Do You Know Why Some People Fear Marriage? (If you find this informative helpful, then please find the…
Dating
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- Death And Bereavement
- Endings And Grief
- Parenting
- Divorce
- Dating
- Marriage
- Relationship Realities
- Sex And Addictions
- Sigmund Freud
- The Family
- Relationship Wisdom
- Choosing Our Partners
- How It All Starts
As a relationship therapist time and time again I observed the following: When we see couples in love we don’t…
74. Dating: Daters Have Different Motives. What is Yours? You may have noticed that I have placed this section –…
75. Dating: When You Are Dating Women Should Lead And Men Should Follow? But What Does This Really Mean? (If…
76. Dating: Feminism Isn’t Good For Men. (If you find this informative helpful, then please find the donate options at…
Blog 77. Dating: Do You Understand The Grooming Techniques Of Love Bombers? (If you find this informative helpful, then please…
Blog 78. Dating: Do You Understand The Importance Of Self-Worth And Setting Boundaries Early On In A Relationship? (If you…
Blog 79. Dating: Pornography Doesn’t Support Sex – It Ruins It. (If you find this informative helpful, then please find…
Blog 80. Dating: It’s Been Ages And He Still Hasn’t Asked Me To Marry Him? (If you find this informative…
Blog 81. Dating: Learn Why you Need To Keep Your Personal Life Personal – Especially On Social Media. (If you…
Divorce
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- Endings And Grief
- Parenting
- Divorce
- Dating
- Marriage
- Relationship Realities
- Sex And Addictions
- Sigmund Freud
- The Family
- Relationship Wisdom
- Choosing Our Partners
- How It All Starts
Blog 82: Divorce: What Divorce Can Mean For A Couple. (If you find this informative helpful, then please find the…
Blog 83. Divorce: You Will Search For Me In Another Person. I Promise. (If you find this informative helpful, then…
Blog 84. Divorce: You Made A Mistake. You Made The Wrong Choice. Who Is To Blame? (If you find this…
Blog 85. Divorce: Your Mistakes Might Not Be Mistakes – But Important Life Lessons. (If you find this informative helpful,…
Blog 86. Divorce: Divorce Can Have Long-Term Effects On Children. (If you find this informative helpful, then please find the…
Parenting
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- Sex And Addictions
- Sigmund Freud
- The Family
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- Choosing Our Partners
- How It All Starts
Blog 87. Parenting: Are You Willing To Become What It Takes To Be A Parent? (If you find this informative…
Blog 88. Parenting: Even If Adoption Takes Place Just After Birth, The Baby Can Still Mourn The Loss Of Their…
Blog 89. Parenting: Find Out Why Some Mothers Cannot Bond With Their Babies. (If you find this informative helpful, then…
Blog 90. Parenting: Find Out Why The Jealousy Between A Mother And Her Daughter Results In An Unhealed Mother Wound.…
Blog 91. Parenting: Some mothers actually regret having children. Why? (If you find this informative helpful, then please find the…
Blog 92. Parenting: Do You Know What Might Happen If You Don’t Communicate Your Parenting Expectations To Your Partner? (If…
Blog 93: Parenting: Doing Too Much For Your Child Is A Form of Abuse. (If you find this informative helpful,…
Blog 94. Parenting: Do You Fully Understand The Repercussions Of Becoming A Single Parent Or What It Is Like To…
Blog 95. Parenting: Have You Begun To Recognise The Damaging Effects Social Media Can Have On Children? (If you find…
Endings and Grief
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- Sex And Addictions
- Sigmund Freud
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- Relationship Wisdom
- Choosing Our Partners
- How It All Starts
Blog 101. Endings and Grief: A Parent May Have Mixed Feelings When Children Leave Home. Find Out Why. (If you…
Blog 102. Endings and Grief: Finding Yourself Unable To Change A Situation (Like A Child Forced To Grow Up With An…
Blog 103. Endings and Grief: Retirement. (If you find this informative helpful, then please find the donate options at the…
Blog 104. Endings and Grief: Take Heed – This Is What Divorce (Or Separation) Is Mostly About. (If you find…
Blog 105. Endings And Grief: How Do You Cope When Things End Or When You Have to Say Goodbye? (If…
Death and Bereavement
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- Choosing Our Partners
- How It All Starts
Blog 106: Death And Bereavement – Of A Child And The Repercussions. (If you find this informative helpful, then please…
Blog 107. Death and Bereavement: When A Child Loses A Parent. (If you find this informative helpful, then please find…
Blog 108. Death and Bereavement: Losing A Partner. (If you find this informative helpful, then please find the donate options…
Blog 109. Death and Bereavement: Find Out How The Body Dies And Why Many Fear Death. (If you find this…
Blog 110. Death And Bereavement: Why do some people choose to commit suicide? (If you find this informative helpful, then please…
Therapy
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- How It All Starts
Blog 111. Therapy Part A: Find Out Why Therapy Can Be A Major Time-Saver. (If you find this informative helpful,…
Blog 112. Therapy Part B: Relationship Therapy: Find Out Why You Should Go To Relationship Therapy Before It’s Too Late.…
Blog 113. Therapy Part C: Why Do Couples Need Relationship Therapy? Why Can’t They Just Talk To A Friend Or…
Blog 114. Therapy Part D: Finding A Therapist, The Therapist, How Weekly Sessions Are Arranged And Paid For, But What…
Blog 115. Therapy Part E: The Process And What You Can Expect From Relationship Therapy. (If you find this informative…
Blog 116. Therapy Part F: A Brief Outline Of The Therapist’s Role During Therapy : Listening, Observation, Transference, Body Transference,…
Blog 117. Therapy Part G: Sex Therapy. (If you find this informative helpful, then please find the donate options at…
Blog 118. Therapy Part H. Therapy: The Importance Of Judgement, Compassion and Forgiveness – and Forgiveness In Relationships. (If you…
Blog 119. Therapy. Part I: Letting Go And How Therapy Sessions Should End. (If you find this informative helpful, then…
Business, Money And Your Career
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- Business, Money And Your Career
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- Death And Bereavement
- Endings And Grief
- Parenting
- Divorce
- Dating
- Marriage
- Relationship Realities
- Sex And Addictions
- Sigmund Freud
- The Family
- Relationship Wisdom
- Choosing Our Partners
- How It All Starts
Blog 121. Business, Money And Your Career: The Value Of Group Therapy In Business. Find Out How Other People See…
Blog 122. Business, Money And Your Career: When You Go To Work Each Day You Take Who You Are With…
Blog 123. Business, Money And Your Career: How Your Schooling Can Influence Who You Become In Adulthood. (If you find this…
Blog 124. Business, Money And Your Career: When It Comes To Money – What Do You Think Are You Worth?…
Blog 125. Business, Money And Your Career: Understanding Your Body Language. (If you find this informative helpful, then please find…
Blog 126. Business, Money And Your Career: Do You Really Know How To Truly Listen In The Workplace? (If you find…
Blog 127. Business, Money And Your Career: Are You Aware That Being Late For Appointments Tells People More About You Than…
Blog 128. Business, Money And Your Career: Learn More About Your Possible Resistance To Happiness, Success and Wealth. (If you…
Blog 129. Business, Money And Your Career: Should You Ever Consider Having A Business Partner? (If you find this informative…