The Deidré Wallace System


Psychodynamic Relationship Therapist, Educator and Producer of the Step-By-Step Relationship Knowledge System:

I am not offering relationship advice, I am offering relationship knowledge:

I am a Psychodynamic Relationship Therapist and Educator. I have had a Private Practice for the past 23 years. My training involved a rigorous 4.5 years relationship therapy training involving 450 supervised voluntary counselling hours.

Having also studied Clinical Psychology and holding a Bachelor of Arts degree, years later, I qualified as an adult education teacher, which led me to teaching in various adult education colleges, in prisons and in a London hospital, and mentoring in various schools. Then I trained as a relationship therapist and being handed a private practice, I have put together a step-by-step relationship knowledge system.

This system is based on various teaching experiences, my studies and 24 years of client observation – which explains exactly how and why we choose our personal and business relationships.

In doing so, I have provided information that explains how we develop and what the pitfalls may be, when entering a relationship or choosing a partner. The ‘layers of development’ has not been written about before. Neither have some of the taboo subjects which many others therapists steer well away from, but which I feel are necessary truths, especially as children are often by-products of failed relationships.

Also, my step-by-step system refers to the issues that a couple would normally have to address during therapy. My system also attracts readers who are therapists themselves or trainee therapists. And herein lies its educational value.

My system does not offer relationship advice rather it offers relationship knowledge. And this is what makes me different. I understand how adults learn. And how I’ve packaged this knowledge, enables people to think differently and it helps them understand the importance of creating a good foundation if they wish to start a family.

Relationships are risky, and I teach people how to reduce this risk. I teach them how to choose partners with their eyes wide open – not shut. And I also offer tools and techniques that provide a better and deeper understanding so that people can work towards healing or improving their relationships as is deemed necessary.

You can read my step-by-step relationship knowledge system by clicking on the HOME button above, and scrolling down to Blog 1.

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Thank you.

PS: I also offer daily relationship knowledge information via Twitter, my Facebook Group:


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I have written various articles for The Independent’s Conversations.Indy100, Thrive Global, Medium and Linkedin.
I have also been interviewed by the The Independent’s Conversations.Indy100.

Then along with actors and a National Theatre director, I will be describing my relationship system via various dramas. We have already created preparatory scripts/films of what I’ve developed.


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